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Elisabeth - 2008-05-12 19:34:20
Hi Rose,
I haven't quite been in your shoes, but I'm dating a guy who was married before and grew up in a small village in Southeastern Brazil. We have our differences in opinion and before we have an arguement, I force myself to think that we have grown up in two completely different backgrounds. Once I think about this and appreciate this fact, most of my heated thoughts go away.
I'm not as independent as I was before, but I did speak to him about keeping a couple things to myself (rock climbing, a professional group, monthly happy hours with some girlfriends). In his eyes, he wants to spend all of his time among people he loves (i.e. his daughter, myself, a couple friends). Maybe your husband shares this idea too.
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